Decisions

How do we make decisions, what do we base them on, what’s the process? I know we are said to be self-centered, which I believe to be mostly true. But what about big decisions that effect more than just you? Factors like other people involved can effect the balance of decision making. Does that mean when it’s all said and done that it wasn’t a decision made for yourself but for others, or do we always have the final say?
Decisions made “selfishly” aren’t bad or wrong, if anything they are probably the most honest ones. They can be hurtful and devastating. And they can be joyful and inspiring.
Decisions made “selflessly” aren’t dishonest. They aren’t even really selfless. What you want will come out either consciously or subconsciously, it will be heard.
Desire is the cornerstone of decision making in my opinion. It’s basic and primary, most times we don’t even realize all the decisions we make constantly. Big decisions bring our morals and desires into sharp focus. How we see our big decisions played out showcase our character. No wonder stress and confusion are always so prevalent in big decision making.